The number in parentheses is not an atomic weight. It is the mass number of one radioactive isotope of the element.
Atomic weight from the Chemical Society of Japan, “Table of Standard Atomic Weights with Four Significant Figures (2026)”.
In 1919, Rutherford found that shining alpha rays on nitrogen produced nuclei of oxygen and hydrogen. It was the first example of changing an atomic nucleus by human hands.
The discovery of rutherfordium was reported in 1969 and 1971, and credit went to both the United States and the former Soviet Union. Its name was decided in 1997.
In a 1994 proposal, the name for element 104 was “dubnium.” In 1997 today’s name was decided, and “dubnium” became the name of element 105.
Rutherfordium is in the seventh row of Group 4, at the bottom of the column with titanium, zirconium and hafnium.
Elements with an atomic number of 104 or more are called “superheavy elements.” They are also called “transactinide elements.”
There is no single right answer. Talking it over with someone at home is a good way to learn.